Thursday, April 30, 2009

No More Kings!

It's no secret - I LOVE the Internet! Don't you? Days like today make me love it even more. My 8 y/o dd asked me a question this afternoon why people are having "tea parties." She's heard people talk about it, including her mother, and she helped color a poster that was utilized by someone who attended. ;)

As always happens when they ask me a question, I used the Internet to help me explain. I know we've read about the original Boston Tea Party before, but she's just in second grade and it may not have made much of an impression. So, I used the above video that I remember from MY childhood to help explain. It was wonderful!

Think about it. When I was her age - too many years ago to even think about - I NEVER thought I would have a computer in my house where I could pull up information on any subject I wanted to know about almost instantly. I learned to knit on the Internet. I learned how to make a bunch of origami Christmas ornaments on the Internet. If I want a recipe for bacon chocolate chip cookies - BAM! - it's there! If I want to see what the weather is in Bora Bora - WHAMMO! - I've got it in mere seconds. If I want to know how to potty train a cat - video instruction is mine for the asking! ;)

As far as homeschooling goes, look in my sidebar and you will see many, many web sites with free homeschool materials. If you are having problems explaining a math concept to your child, just search YouTube for any math topic whatsoever and, chances are, you will find a video on it. These are put up by average people, students, and even professional math instructors. FREE tutoring! Then there are web sites like CurrClick, UnitStudy.com, Progressive Phonics, and Home Education Resources where you can get inexpensive homeschool or tutoring materials to download to your computer that are of great quality.

Seriously, there is no reason for a child NOT knowing how to read, not knowing their times tables - or not knowing anything else they need or want to know in this day and age. Most parents have access to a computer and know how to use one. Whether they use the computer in their home, at work, or at the local library. Even if your child is in regular school, but can't read well, or isn't doing well in math, you can get on the Internet and find what you need to help them. It's at least worth a try before they go through rigorous evaluations for learning disabilities, or paying out megabucks for a tutor, or before they are just passed on to the next grade without being ready.

People have asked the question of me, and others, how people who aren't real teachers can teach their children. I do NOT understand that question. If you know how to read yourself, you can teach anyone to read - especially with the Internet, DVD players and CD players that the great majority of people have access to. My 11 y/o largely taught my now 8 y/o to read three years ago. We used Progressive Phonics (download and print books) and it's scripted. Both girls wanted to do it, so I let them. I just thought of it as good experience for them both. I guess you could say we had some "cooperative learning" going on in our homeschool! ;)

My 11 y/o learned to read before Progressive Phonics was invented, so I used other mostly non-Internet materials for her, but we did use Starfall.com. We used the old technology of a tape player as well for Hear-See-Say Phonics. It's not rocket science. You don't need a degree in teaching reading. Teaching arithmetic is just as straightforward, and there are excellent Internet resources for that as well that are free or inexpensive.

It is my opinion that one of the most important things you can teach a child is how to be Internet savvy and how to discern if a web site is reliable or junk. This is the future of education. How do you use the internet in your homeschool?

Schoolhouse Rock Preamble to the Constitution

It's prom season again...


I have had a few people tell me in the past that they think it's so sad that my girls will "miss" the prom that regular school kids enjoy. My oldest is in fifth grade, and I first started hearing this around the time she was in kindergarten and first grade. It's as if kids suffer through eleven years of school all for the big payoff - the prom!

I know every teenage girl dreams of getting asked to the prom by that "certain someone." She dreams of getting all dressed up in a fancy dress and being swept off her feet like a true Cinderella. She dreams of that magic night where she looks like a princess and is treated like one. (Well, I certainly felt like Cinderella when I was working as a waitress in order to buy my own prom dresses and shoes! - lol!)

My Junior year I went "stag" - but I got to hang out with some friends afterwards and it was still a great time. My senior year was a disaster, I was as tall as my date, and we ended up getting into a fender bump in his mom's new car. He also embarassed me in front of my sister and her friends. It was awful. I could have saved myself some money and heartache by just staying home.

I went to a Christian school so, although we had a substitute prom in the form of "Jr.-Sr. Banquet," where we had no dancing but got to dress up in fancy-shmancy dresses, go to a nice reception hall and have chicken cordon bleu, get our pictures made, chit-chat with our friends, and listen to an inspirational speaker. It was pretty neat, but hardly worth the $200 I shelled out for a dress and shoes.

Most of today's proms are nothing like the ones at my school. I don't know that proms have ever really been like the ideal - the dreamy Cinderella story I mentioned above . Years ago I was a volunteer counselor for a CPC and prom season was one of our busiest times of the year, besides summer time when kids apparently had nothing else to do. In fact, my "prom" was nothing like the ideal for a lot of my classmates - only I wasn't aware of it back then. Years after graduation I found out that some left after the "prom" to go to the home of one of the more permissive parents where there WAS dancing (not a big deal) but also drinking (a big deal).

I mention all of this to say, if you're thinking about homeschooling don't get sidetracked by the unimportant and temporary - like the prom or participation in sports or band or anything else. An education is forever, and a quality education trumps all the proms in the world!

Tia Linschied of The Old Schoolhouse Magazine wrote an excellent article about prom parties:
It's that Most Ridiculous Time of the Year: Prom Season